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We might love to tell others about our unusual experience. For example, we climbed Mount Everest, tasted some rare (罕见的) food or met a famous person on the street. But a new study shows that if we share these unusual experiences with others, it may bring something (1)
and not be welcomed.
We all like unusual experiences, and always can't wait to share them with our friends. Some people even mistakenly thought that having an unusual experience would make them the stars of the conversation. But they were (2)
wrong, because to be unusual means to be different from other people. If you do not share (3)
with the people around you, they will not welcome you in the conversation. What's more, conversations always seem (4)
well on more common topics.
To find out, the scientist Cooney and his group members had 68 people come to the lab (实验) in groups of four. In each group, one person was asked to watch a popular video of a street magician performing for some people, (5)
the other three people were asked watched a common cartoon video. After watching the videos, the people sat around a table and had a five (6)
free conversation. After the group discussion, the people who watched the magician's performance felt (7)
than those who watched the cartoon video, because they felt (8)
out of their group discussion. They didn't have the same topic as others in the group.
The result shows that we should give more thoughts in (9)
what to talk about with others. If an experience turns you into someone who has nothing in common with others, (10)
experience it is, it won't make you happy.