5. Everyone wants to become perfect. Unluckily, being perfect may not happen. Here's some useful advice about how to refuse perfection (完美).
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Compared with others, you may feel that you are not perfect. End your comparison. No comparing, no pain.
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When perfection is your aim, mistakes mean failure. Learn to accept that mistakes are part of human beings. Remember nobody is perfect. You needn't take others' words seriously.
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Your fear of making mistakes may keep you from taking risks or trying new things. Don't worry. Find a true friend, a family member or a teacher and ask for help you need to really improve.
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Find someone who is not a perfectionist. Learn from his or her mistakes. Share your goals and achievements with him or her, no matter how small they are.
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Cut out the words like "never", "always" and "should" from your self-talk. Realizing this means you're well on your way to changing yourself better.
The more confidence you develop, the less you'll feel the need to be perfect. When you give up perfection, happiness can begin right now. And you are better really.
A. Accept your mistakes B. Ask for help from others C. Stop comparisons D. Change your talk style E. Develop new hobbies F. Learn from mistakes |