16. Life is full of choices and decisions. Here are some steps to help you make wise decisions.
First, it's better to make a decision quickly than avoid it for a month because you're afraid of choosing. (1)
Also, some choices usually have time limits. So to keep our brains from getting too tired, we needn't think about the cost of every single choice. Narrow down the list and try comparing only the best two or three.
Next, think about the value and cost of each choice. (2)
Or better yet, create a scorecard, on which you give out bigger point values to what you think is more important . This way you can tell if one huge advantage is more important than a group of little disadvantages.
Then, stay calm and give yourself some space. You don't want to delay (延迟) for weeks, but if you're about to make a hasty (仓促的) decision, you may end up picking something you regret. (3)
And it might take you a few days for major choices, like choosing your ideal high school.
(4)
Why? Because it's good to get a fresh way of thinking from others who are not as worried as you. Consider their opinions (观点) even if they are not what you want to hear. You need to take different opinions into consideration so that you will make a wise decision.
A. You'll need at least one night to "sleep on it". B. And you don't have to make a decision alone. C. They are the best chances to show your personality. D. These ways of letting out what you are feeling are helpful. E. It's very tiring to think things over but fail to decide in time. F. To do that, you can make a list of advantages and disadvantages. |