5. In an ancient story, we learn about a young man named Narcissus. He was so beautiful that he fell in love with his own reflection, but soon realized that what he loved was not real. As a result, he became sad and died. In the place where he had stood appeared a soft yellow flower — a narcissus (水仙).
(1) Unluckily, narcissism is often used to show a feeling that you don't like because it is usually used to mean being self-centered and not caring about others.
However, part of the reason that narcissism carries these negative meanings is that many people admire themselves too much. (2) A study published 10 years ago shows that if people don't have enough confidence, it can cause many social problems, and it can influence teenagers seriously. When they feel less confident and not as good as their classmates, it's possible for teenagers to have problems.
The other reason that narcissism is considered as an ugly thing is because we are taught that we should care more about others than ourselves and that it's better to give than to get. (3) But some experts say that the love of others is actually based on self-love. If you see yourself as an unpleasant stranger, how can you be able to make friends with anyone else?After all, you are closer to yourself than anyone else.
(4) Only if the parents accept and agree with their children, do they feel loved and learn to love themselves.
The next time you look in the mirror, try to tell yourself that you are one of a kind. (5)
A. Thinking about others is the right thing to do, without question.
B. Any kind of admiration for people themselves really has a bad influence on people's daily lives.
C. This is where the word "narcissism" came from.
D. Pick out your best qualities and be proud of yourself.
E. But the truth is that good self﹣love is necessary for our mental health, scientists say.
F. After years' study, scientists also found that parents play a big part in building a child's self﹣belief.